04 Oct 5 Things You Should Quit To Be Successful In Life ???
What is success?
According to wiki, Success may refer to: Attainment of higher social status. Â Achievement of a goal, for example academic achievement. Success is the opposite of failure. Â However, success may mean something different to every individual, itâs like the saying âbeauty is in the eye of the beholder.â
It is up to you to determine what success means to you, and how can you go about amplifying success in your life.
Although, you are going to face some challenges before you reach your goals to success.
But donât fret because of what you seek, or be afraid that your actions are blocking your desire for success.
Remember, you have the power and control to quit the following mind blocks:
1) Â Quit Making Excuses
Stop blaming others when you donât get what you want. Â Take responsibility of your own mistakes. It is you thatâs making the choices and causing the mistakes that happen, not other people. To be completely brutal, stop justifying your poor choices and stop referring your lack of success to things not within your control. Youâre going to err and fail. Instead, look within and analyze, in a non-judgmental manner. Â Plan out on what you can do better the next time. Donât waste your time by making pathetic excuses for why you didnât achieve success.
2) Â Quit Focusing on the Negative Points
There are negative circumstances you have no control over. Â But also in every dark side there is always a bright side of things. I dare say that you have more positives in your life than negatives, you just have to focus on the positives and concentrate on all the good things. Don’t disregard the negative as we can learn something from it too, but donât dwell on it.
My friends who know me well knows that my favorite line is âthereâs always 2 sides to a story, itâs up to you to look at the bright side or the brighter sideâ. Focus on the positives and you will start attracting the good things into your life. Youâre capable of living with a positive perspective.
3) Â Â Quit Being Afraid of Failure
As stated previously, YOUâRE GOING TO FAIL, at some point or other! There are no reasons to fear failure. Failure isnât a reflection of you as a flawed person.  Think of failure as an opportunity to grow. Learn to embrace it.  Learn from your mistakes and ultimately improve from it.
4) Â Quit Beating Yourself Up
Donât beat yourself up, both physically or mentally.  It is crucial to learn how to skillfully deal with your thoughts and emotions when youâre facing conflicting situations. Itâs okay to get upset over things. Expressing emotions is good but do it in an appropriate manner. Itâs okay to be unhappy from time to time, but donât dwell over unpleasant memories and beat yourself up over things that happened already. Too much time and energy spent can divert your attention away from the more important priorities of your progress to success.
5) Â Quit Giving Up
Successful people donât give up. Â They commit themselves to reaching their final goal. They may not get there yet or maybe never, but they donât allow challenges to prevent them from trying. So you should just grit your teeth and continue on despite failures and disappointments.
 âJust because I canât do it today, doesnât mean that Iâm not gonna do it someday.â
~ Arthur Boorman
They say that at the very moment you want to quit, youâre actually almost there.Â
The fundamental backbone of success is to do your best. Â Putting forth your best effort, without harming others in the process, then youâre a successful person. This can apply to your work, family, friends, relationships, etc.
Let me end this sharing with the following quoteâŠ
âSuccess is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.â
~John Wooden
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